I don't know, my experience with online dating kinda matches yours. I quit too, over a year ago for the same reasons you list here.

Maybe it's not just the men, maybe it is in fact, an indication of the type of person who believes they can judge a possible future lifetime partner from a couple badly focused old photos and a two paragraph personal essay. Nobody in the online realm seems to realize that it can literally take years to form a healthy, working relationship with another person.

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