I think you might be describing a female version of me. Only nobody ever even indicated I might be on the spectrum. Maybe I hide it well. Or maybe we’re all a little weird and we’ve got this notion to diagnose everyone that doesn’t quite fit in with the standard extroverted human as somehow “off”. I prefer to think of us all as special. And I mean that in a good way. Frankly, I’m a little put off by those people everyone considers “normal” anyway. They just freak me out.