It is a thing. Just sayin’. I’ve read seven minutes is average. Okay, I’ll admit I’ve had sex in seven minutes (even less, actually). But it wasn’t my idea. Normally, I haven’t even gotten started by then. It’s never been about just MY orgasm. It’s not even about just your orgasm. Sure, they’re both important but good sex is about way more than that. And that takes hours. It can take most of the night. I recommend starting in the morning. :)