See, this is why I don’t internet date. I see the options:

  1. Actively looking for someone to marry — Obvious
  2. Is looking for a relationship — code for long term committed leading to possible marriage/live in arrangment…
  3. Just wants to date but nothing serious — looking for a hookup

How about none of the above, let’s have a beer and get to know one another? If things were to go really well, it could turn into an exclusive FWB situation but probably won’t if you’re any of the above options ’cause that’s not one of the things listed. And those are either A) too involved or B) too casual.

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