Some things I haven’t been able to say

But my kids (all of our kids, really) need to know

Before I say anything else, you should know that I always did what I thought was best. I was overwhelmed, unsure of how to proceed, and lost without your mother. Adulting isn’t particularly hard. You all know this. You’ve all had to learn how to do it. On short notice and without a lot of understanding or support. You should know that I never…