Sometimes I wish I were stuck in my ways, but the truth is, since my wife died it’s been one life change after another. Feel like I’m walking on quicksand. I haven’t lived in the same place for more than two years at a stretch. One by one each of my four kids have grown up and moved out. I’ve gone through two pretty serious relationships. And now, I’m planning on retiring early and traveling the world. The surprise in all of this is that I kinda revel in the instability.