What a great piece. Personally, I would have never even have considered such a thing. But my wife mentioned something similar a long time ago. It made me think. Not good or bad thoughts, just sort of what it made me feel. And I realized the whole idea was pretty dehumanizing to me. If my girlfriend wanted something like that I'd have to think about it. But honestly, I would never even consider asking her to do that. And I'm not sure I'd be able to have the same relationship with her if she wanted to do that either. Sex is bigger, to me, than just fucking. And that's not ever going to change. I appreciate your ability to bring those emotions to the surface though. It's the kind of thing people should think about, long before making such a decision in a state of drunkenness that they might regret in the morning.

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